Hey guys doesn't time fly, it has been over a month already since my last blog!
This evening has been manic, I came in the door, my wife and my daughter were rowing and it was seriously kicking off in our house tonight! You know when you get that feeling that it is going to be one of those evenings and it so easy to pick up on the vibes; before I knew it I was going into chimp mode too! If you do not know what I am talking about go to my page re the critical mind! In any event as soon as I realised my fatal error ( and yes us coaches are only human too) I realised, hold up a minute I need to zone out here and just be calm and wait for the storm of kicking off to calm down. Low and behold within ten minutes of me being calm the house calmed down, my daughter apologised to my beloved wife and harmony was restored, it was like magic, simply amazing! That for me is what coaching brings magic that can really turn things around! It just shows how difficult it is to realise when negative things are happening, until you take a step back to really see what is going on and that is what coaching and self development is about. I certainly realise why most of us do not even recognise that we are in a negative state, until either we feel it and take an action based on that feeling i.e. anger etc or someone out right tells you, you are being negative and only then will we do something then if we agree; and when you are in that mode you are unlikely to agree with it anyway!. Lesson learned and I keep learning every day and this is what you guys are doing amazingly well. That is why coaching is amazing because everyday is an opportunity to learn something about yourself! So what has been happening this month I hear you cry, well as most of you know I have been recording many more videos for you guys; and it has been great to get such amazing feedback from you all with also suggestions on what you would like me to coach. So far already this month I have out out there “How to earn more money” where I showed you how to earn more without even spending a penny or a dime! “How to impress at a job interview” where I showed you some very simple techniques to get the edge when you get interviewed, I have had some interesting questions about mirroring so thank you for that. Also “How to coach your way out of moaning clubs” these are techniques to get you out of a negative zone and away from people who may be getting you into that type of club, which moves you away from what you want to achieve. “How to build self confidence” this is a great one which was suggested by you guys and again some simple techniques in here for you to try out and really bring out that confidence that I know that you all have. “Going from Victim to Navigator” This one was about knowing you are playing the victim role and moving a state of Navigator where you take control of what you do to get your desired outcome. My latest one is “Visualisation technique” I put a link to this video to my special coachees who have signed up to my newsletter, so it is well worth signing up click here. They got to view this first hand before anyone else and this will really help you develop how you will act in a certain situation before it has even happened. In this video I show how you can use it for a job interview. It is really amazing and I can proof it as I have used this technique myself! REMEMBER DO NOT FORGET TO COME BACK TO MY SITE IF YOU HAVE VIEWED THESE VIDEOS ON YOU TUBE! So a really productive month with lots of extra content for you to view and use to your own advantage. As I have said all along my mission “is to help as many of you as possible”, so I hope this is helping you out there. Don’t forget to get in touch and feedback to me that is always welcome. So remember stay strong, stay focused and really move to what you want in your life I know you can all do it. Enjoy the journey and let us share all the ups and downs together. I am sure there will be more ups than downs; so be amazing and remember every dream starts with that first step!
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